There is a letter for you

It may be easier to want one to yourself that you love others even though the man is so politically correct that is able to conceal his pride in what is theoretically interesting for another. Perhaps there is more pride and arrogance in what is apparently disinterested affection. It is not easy to distinguish even for yourself unless you stop to ponder his own conscience. A mighty task, you never know what ghosts are going to find inside, talking loudly. In any case, the reality is that the self is the real engine of happiness. Never try to quell a feeling, if you do, your body will soon pay the price of anxiety, stress and frustration. Go where your heart takes you and never forget that paradoxically what you want most is just what you fear most. Everyone has a story, a story of personal encounters and we tacking over time. It is difficult to describe the biography of the heart, revealing the code of the language of feelings to better understand the other. Often make the mistake of forgetting that everyone is different and therefore the actual degree of empathy in a utopia and extreme difficult to get since no one can get a hundred percent in the mind and the interiority of others, or even of those closest to us.

If for a moment cease to be we could do ourselves to become directly on the other. A power may sometimes be desirable but impossible for any human being limited to the conditions of its own corporeality. In any case, despite the limitations posed by the personal individuality, dialogue is a very effective weapon to discover other and build a foundation of mutual trust. Today I understand you would love to see you, your thirty-five years, with much anger inside of you by bad memories of your youth. No down time you built the armor to protect you from others when you were so alone. Defending yourself the enemy of humanity. You alone against the rest of the world. Today still there, although you do not even realize it. Ignoring that you're not the same boy then and there around you to many good people who give back to your little receptivity to good. Ignoring even people also change and that many of those who were hurt then you are now adults who take their mistakes from the past because they were as much victims as you are a teenager.

Nobody finds it easy getting older.

Your pain is understandable yesterday, the attitude of all those you left out is questionable, however, you should not give them much power to those who made you feel as if you were not one at the time because then you're not a slave to that yourself time but it has taken a wrong life role. It is very difficult to build an inner stability regardless of personal relationships, denying their own need for love in all of us, this requires trust people. Trust does not mean that everyone is good and we're never going to be disappointed, trust means to assume that only one being open to give you the opportunity to surprise us and give us their friendship. Today is the first day of the rest of your life. Today your adventure begins. The only reality is in your hands is this: Forget the past. Forget and friends of those that did not work or those who remained loves halfway because the only thing you get to remember all that is wasting energy on an issue that no longer exists. I know that if you bet someday in life you'll love the right girl, and will be one that has the virtue of loving as you are.

That love will come and then you laugh at all the times that suffered by previous partners. It breaks the internal limitations that keep you chained to yesterday's normal to be afraid, but do not let it dominate your decisions. Ask the phone to this girl from work that you find interesting and try to know little by little. Invite this coffee mate yoga classes that you find nice ... Today is the first day of the rest of your life, enjoy your present. Today you are on time, who knows what may happen tomorrow. I do not understand why humans lose such a long time to wait. Welcome to the game of your life, enjoy and win. You're in a new city depends on you move from hope or from resentment but you get the fruits, are obviously not the same. The hope is founded on good and gives you wings to grow. By contrast, resentment enslaves you. Trust yourself and Love yourself a little more than you do. Do not let fear paralyze you, salt and conquer the world: life is an unfinished masterpiece in which you are the protagonist.

Behold the wonder of creation in the morning and tell me if you really do not think God had good reason to create you, I refuse to think that the beauty of the universe is the result of chance and we are all here by chance. Do yourself a favor to yourself, dare to dream, work for your personal and professional goals, take care and Love yourself. Never forget that your value does not depend on what others think of you but what you think of yourself. I am proud of you friend, and I know that sooner or later you will have the courage to leave the place where you feel comfortable but unhappy to face your fears and grow inwardly in your personal quest for happiness. Best of luck. PD: Human beings have a special power to leave everything for tomorrow, not only professionally, but also personal. Motivated by the pride we hope to not know what exactly to apologize, saying I love or express feelings that should be pronounced not only do good to one who states but also the time to listen. Sometimes I wonder if we have become all a bit inhuman in this consumer society with priority given to secondary and essentially turning it into something completely accidental.

In any case life is a mystery as great as death should so they may not wait too long to tell everyone how important we are to us. I am a philosopher at heart with the soul of a poet, the experience has taught me that true beauty is inside. Within me I still have the curiosity of a child who constantly asks questions about happiness.