Parallel language, verbal and nonverbal

During a conversation is always desirable to ensure that we receive and interpret correctly what we really want to convey to the issuer, this being successful communication when it becomes assertive and empathetic, or put another way, that we accurately understand the reason and the sense of our fellow man through the credibility and trust that inspires us.

Undoubtedly, a person can convey ideas and feelings through expressions of your body without the need to talk. On the flip side, it is almost impossible for someone to talk without gesturing or while gesturing with his body. Research shows that when we communicate with others 93% of this communication is nonverbal, and the remaining 7% verbal communication competence. Therefore, honesty and authenticity of a person can deduce by the congruence between their ideas, their words and expressions, undisputed triumvirate that governs the behavior of a person and does not doubt it really is .

In the first instance, may raise the question that nobody can read the minds of others to cover the analysis of all the factors involved in this situation. However, to construct the reality we can support two external pillars are within our reach and our transmitter transmits to us without fail. These factors are cited in the above statistics are the language and verbal and nonverbal languages ​​parallel and present together in the same conversation.

In situations in which we grasp that both are consistent language we suspect that there is consistency in thought. Otherwise, when the words do not match your expressions and movements, we must doubt the above and give us the task of discovering the true intentions of moving him to behave that way. From these facts it is clear the importance of knowing how to interpret non-verbal language and have the ability to discover information not expressed in words. The experts mentioned that in case of doubt, you should always trust and give greater weight to the statements by non-verbal, unconscious betrayer of thought.

As a small cultural breviary, George Orwell (pseudonym used by author Eric Arthur Blair), in his book "1984" and embodied the situation as the "Thought Police" to use the "telescreen" to monitor at all times people (appearance of "Big Brother"), and how by means of gestures could accurately discover the intentions of a person, these gestures without fear of failure and thus betrayed his thoughts could be charged with thought crimes (crimental).

No need to take to end the situation described above, they must have the ability to observe our neighbors in a global way, enliven our sense of sight and be more perceptive about what someone says with his body language (look , facial expressions, gestures, etc.).. We engage in the study of this subject and have the ability to be deciphered in parallel the two languages ​​gives us the same person and properly recognize the feeling and the reasons that move inside.

To finish and as an essential complement to a much smaller scale we communicate through words, it would still be less important, and we reaffirm our view made about a person by listening carefully to what he says verbally. Generally it is by this means that we are aware of the beliefs, ideals and deepest feelings in her. To hear his tone of voice, speed and rhythm, we can obtain additional information that allows us to close the circle of honesty and loyalty that a person expresses to us.